Girls are used to using the attractiveness of appearance to win the guy’s heart.
Beauties fascinate at first sight. For many men, this is enough to have a partner, build a family.
But there are guys for whom appearance is not an indicator. The intellectual development of a person is more important, men with an IQ of not lower than average, they understand this.
In addition to visiting the gym, girls have to develop intellectually. Educational institutions help to raise the level of general knowledge, and to raise a sense of humor is more difficult.
A sense of humor is one of the most important qualities of a person. The world is full of pain and injustice, fears and anxieties.
And if a person nearby who is able to make you laugh, take him with both hands, carry him to the den, and do not let go anywhere.
And to take you to the den - develop a sense of humor, learn to be original, witty and funny. After all, beauty passes, but the ability to cheer remains.
How to answer a guy with humor to the question: “What are you doing?”
The most common question on the phone and in correspondence is: “What are you doing?” Friends, relatives, soulmate are interested in the current state of affairs.
Learn to respond with humor to periodically dilute a boring monotonous dialogue, sew off unpleasant interlocutors.
We answer the question in an original way:
|Situation||Options for answering the question: “What are you doing?”|
|I want to be original||“I answer your question”|
|I want to sew||“I’m banging my head against the wall - so tired of stupid questions”|
|The goal is to intrigue||“And try to guess. Guess - a cookie from me ”|
|I want to flirt||“I’m talking with one smart and handsome guy.”|
The most witty option
There is one very original answer to the question: “What are you doing?” - “I grow my hair.” The answer is a little rude, suitable for friends who are used to not being offended. Suitable to get away from the conversation.
The answer means that you can do anything, but this does not apply to your interlocutor. You call an immaterial thing: I grow my hair.
It is known: they grow without your participation. The answer may mean that you are not currently engaged in a certain type of activity.
- Do not say so to parents.
- Older people: grandmothers, teachers.
- Beloved person.
Why can not you make a joke like that with your loved one? Relations imply intimacy: people reveal themselves to each other, waiting for affection, attention and reciprocity.
A similar answer to a simple question will be regarded as rudeness. This will offend, alert the partner.
Do not be a fool retelling memorized jokes anywhere. Know how to catch the moment. Think about what the reaction will be.
Joke as if you were simply exaggerating the facts. It is appropriate to laugh at your joke. This is subtle matter, do not get carried away.
It’s easier to learn how to react witty to a person in whose family it is customary to joke. A father or mother with a good sense of humor will pass on skills in the course of many years of communication.
A good example is a practice that allows you to develop skills. Want to be witty - watch programs where they joke well. They are on Russian television. One of the best is Stand-Up.
Interesting answers to man
Consider witty answers to different occasions:
|"How are you feeling"?||“I choose between: shoot yourself and hang yourself. What do you advise? ”|
|"How are you"?||"I will not say. And then you’ll get hurt. ”|
|"How do you"?||"Wonderful. Without you, the Earth did not stop spinning ”|
|"What do you like in me"?||"You look like autism when you smile."|
|"What will do"?||“Let's shoot ourselves. Or have some tea. Choose a sequence »|
|"When are you planning to get married"?||“And when would you like to marry us?”|
|"How much money do you make"?||“Average in my industry. But a little less than that of Bill Gates "|
|“When are you planning to have children?”||“We have already started. We just don’t tell anyone about it. ” And then the question is: “Seriously”? You answer: "No." The tactless interlocutor will calm down a little|
|"How old are you"?||"Eighteen, as always"|
|“Why so sad?”||“I grieve for humanity”|
|"Have you recovered?"||“I am looking for the perfect shape, experimenting”|
|“Doesn't your mom need a son-in-law?”||"In queue". Or: "You will be the seventeenth." Or like this: “We have not finished the previous one”|
|"Why are you still not married"?||“A martyr who wants to poison his life has not yet been born.” "I do not have the second half - I was born whole." "For I so want." The last phrase is a universal answer to almost any tactless question.|
These answers are templates. They may not be used in all situations. To get away from a tactless question, it is enough to transfer the arrows to the interlocutor.
If you are asked about the reason for the absence of marriage or children, feel free to ask instead of answering.
To put an arrogant interlocutor in place, you can answer like this: “Why do you not live in a terrarium with your character?”
Or: “Do you think that without this a person cannot be happy? You have very limited ideas about life. ” Or so: “Marriage is not a sign of happiness. Take at least you.
You do not look happy in marriage. Or I'm wrong"? Such an answer will knock the soil from under the feet of an arrogant interlocutor.
But usually tactless people do not want to offend you, they are simply not educated enough to understand what causes discomfort.
Be considerate, smile sweetly, and ask how your interlocutor met his soul mate.
If you want to avoid awkward questions, ask yourself. People love talking about themselves.
Being in the spotlight, expressing oneself is important to everyone. This is the secret of a good interlocutor: know how to listen and support the interlocutor, to direct the conversation.
What do you like in me?
|Pay attention to:|
|absolute power. August 16, 2010 Yol.|
|* absolutely nothing to do * March 20, 2010 Lulu.|
|There is absolutely no one to talk to. '(December 5, 2010 not ice|
|Rogan Born January 18, 2013 13:45:28|
|what do you think that I generally like something about you, bark|
|Rogan Bourne January 18, 2013 13:45:50|
|and so are you coco etc|
|Shawl January 18, 2013 13:46:17|
|Rogan Born January 18, 2013 13:46:40|
|super bonus! 1 |
|Rogan Born January 18, 2013 13:47:29|
|it seems to me, or am I hearing how Stark pokes off your profile picture?|
|naughty January 18, 2013 13:48:15|
Response to the question
Take a breath. By asking such a question, a person may take you by surprise or make you nervous, because you will not have time to think. Because of the experiences, we can blurt out the excess without thinking. Sometimes, due to nervousness, all thoughts immediately disappear somewhere, and you generally cannot think or speak of anything! Take a deep breath before answering.
Start with something simple. Is this person your friend? Maybe this is your partner? Family member? No matter who you are, praise him for how he fulfills his role in your life. If you feel that the interlocutor has taken you by surprise with this question, start again with something simple so that there is time to think about other reasons.
Now get down to the details. As soon as you start with something, try to develop a thought by mentioning the specific qualities of a person. You can say something to a friend, like: "I like that you are always there. I feel your support." You can say to your partner: "You are very caring. You do a lot for our relationship." Here are some other details that can be said about:
Support your statement with an example. Try to recall a specific case that will help confirm your words. For example, you can say to a friend: "You were there when my beloved dog Nayda died. I was so upset then, but you did not take the time to support me." You can say to your partner: "You thought very well (a) when you organized (a) a picnic for us on the occasion of two months of our relationship." Here are some more examples:
Focus on the positives
Use positive and specific words in your speech. Instead of saying, “You study well,” say, “You are very talented and draw well! Your last job was amazing! I would like to draw like that.” Instead of the neutral words "You are always friendly," you can say: "You always try to be yourself and be friendly to other people." Use in your speech special positive words that characterize a person, for example: “talented” and “compassionate”. Try saying something similar:
Mention the best character trait of your friend / partner. When you think about this person and his personality, what is the first good thought (or word) that comes to your mind? Maybe this person is funny? Smart? Sure? Talented? Happy? Attractive? Vigorous? Whatever it is, be sure to tell about it! For example, you could say:
Focus on the personality traits of a person, not on his appearance. It would seem that mentioning something good about a person’s appearance is a great idea, but when asking this question, a person wants to hear more about his personality. It is quite normal to tell the person you are talking to that he is handsome or attractive - why not? But if you are talking only about appearance, a person will be upset and think that apart from appearance you don’t like anything about him. You can say these phrases:
Take a moment to think about why the person is asking you this question. If your best friend just broke up with his girlfriend, most likely he is upset, and he has low self-esteem. Your partner may feel insecure about your relationship. If you recently quarreled with a friend, maybe he is upset and angry, and not sure if you still like him. If you have an idea why a person is asking you this question, try to give him an encouraging answer that would support the interlocutor. For example, you could say:
Take this matter seriously. You may find this unexpected question strange or silly, but most likely the person really wants to understand why you like him. Therefore, postpone your affairs for a minute and pay attention to the interlocutor, think about a good answer. Smile and look a person in the eye when you answer a question. Really think over your words, do not try to get rid of the interlocutor with a short answer.
Your eyes are ugly blue, ”Ouma once said while lying in a strange bed and carefully watched every action of Kiibo.